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Module 5

The Mentoring ​Process

IBD Peer Mentor Training

Meet Module 5

This module provides an introduction to the ​Power of Two Program. It provides an ​overview of the program, our team and a ​refresher on peer support. It overviews the ​various ways to connect with your mentee ​alongside tips for maintaining a safe virtual ​space.

Directory

Getting Started on the Platform

Matching with Mentees

The Mentoring Process

Continuing Education

Acknowledgements

This training was thoughtfully designed by

Elizabeth A Yeackle, MSHE, CHES Associate Director, Support and Engagement

and Kristen Brody, Power of Two Intern, Education Support and Advocacy


For any suggestions or comments, please reach out to eyeackle@crohnscolitisfoundation.org and ​powerof2@crohnscolitisfoundation.org


Getting Started on the Platform

1. Accessing the Platform

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Accessing the Platform

Mobile

APPLE APP STORE

2. Building Your Mentor Profile

Why it Matters

Profile Sections

  • It is the first impression ​mentees have of you


  • It makes it less ​intimidating for ​mentees to reach out


  • the AI Algorithm uses ​pieces of your profile to ​suggest you to mentees
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Personal ​Information

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About Me

digestion, colon, bowel, large intestine, internal organ

My IBD ​Experience

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Prompts

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Availability

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Personal ​Information

Please add a clear profile picture of you smiling. This is really important for mentees to put a face to the name!

Add your:

  • Location
    • not specific address just general ​location
  • Languages
    • only add the ones you are ​proficient in
  • About Me
    • space to share a bio and why you ​are a mentor
  • Pronouns
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Personal ​Information

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About Me

Add your:

  • Age Range
  • Involvement in ​Foundation
  • Location
  • Gender Identity
  • Communities You Are a ​Part of
    • You can also add your own
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Personal ​Information

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digestion, colon, bowel, large intestine, internal organ

About Me

My IBD ​Experience

This section allows you to ​showcase your journey with IBD ​in a way that allows mentees to ​find someone who has had a ​similar disease experience

Add as little or as much as ​you feel comfortable sharing! ​(Remember, all members of ​the Power of Two Program ​can view this)

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Personal ​Information

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About Me

Prompts

This section allows you to ​showcase your personality ​and gives potential mentees ​conversation starters to talk ​about

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Personal ​Information

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Availability

About Me

This section allows you to ​showcase what times and ways ​you prefer to connect. Make sure ​this is up to date frequently

Only select the modes of ​communication you are ​most comfortable with. You ​don’t need to select them ​all if you don’t want to!

REMINDER: Do NOT be ​available at all times

HOW TO EDIT YOUR PROFILE

  • Log in to your account


  • On the upper right hand side, make sure ​you are toggled into “Power of Two ​Program”


  • Click on your profile picture on the top ​right and toggle down


  • Click “Edit Profile”


  • Update profile sections and click “Save” ​to save your changes


3. Connecting to your Mentee

Message

MESSAGING

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VOICE ONLY

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VIDEO CALL

Check your mentees profile to see if they specified how they prefer to communicate

Some mentees may prefer messages while others may prefer videos or voice, and some might like a mix of all the above

Message

How to ​Access ​Messages

Click on the Connection

Click on the message ​button

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Scheduling ​Voice Calls

After you login, your homepage will look like this.


Click “Set Up A Meeting”

Specify in the title “Voice Call”

Pick a date & Time

Click Video, but when you join the video leave your cameras OFF

Click Create

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Joining ​Voice Calls

When you join click ​the button ​highlighted below to ​turn your camera off

Once you turn ​your camera off ​click “Join ​Now”

When you sign ​in all you will ​be able to see ​is your profile ​picture

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Scheduling ​Video Calls

After you login, your homepage will look like this.


Click “Set Up A Meeting”

Add a title for the meeting, can be as simple as “Meeting”

Pick a date & Time

Specify the meeting mode

Click Create

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Joining ​Video Calls

After you join the call, ​you will see YOURSELF

Click on your mentees ​name to pin the video ​and then click the ​triangle to go back to ​the call

When your ​mentee joins it’ll ​notify you on the ​bottom

You should then ​see your mentee ​on your screen

In order to view your ​mentee, click the ​triangle next to your ​profile picture

Click the toggle to ​access other ​features like the ​messaging function ​or notes

FEATURES:

share ​screen

turn off ​camera

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4. Accessing Other Resources

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BROWSING ​PROFILES

  • Log in


  • Make screen full screen


  • On right hand side click ​“Browse People”


  • Choose who you’d like ​to browse


  • View profiles and send a ​message

feel free to reach out to other mentors and introduce yourself!

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QUESTIONS & ​ANSWERS

  • Log in


  • Make screen full screen


  • On right hand side click ​“Community” then click ​“Q&A”


  • Click plus button on top ​right to ask questions


  • Click on questions you’d ​like to answer


ONLY mentors can answer questions. If you ever see any strange questions please flag us.

Search

FINDING ​RESOURCES

  • Log in


  • Make screen full screen


  • On right hand side click ​“Community” then click ​“Resources”


  • Scroll through the ​various resources and ​use what is helpful for ​you

Mentees also have access to ​resources, so if they have trouble ​wi​th the app point them here

CONNECTION PLANS & SURVEYS

Mentee: Opening Survey

Mentor: Closure Survey

Mentee: Closure Survey

Please encourage your mentee to take the surveys.


These surveys help us understand the success of the program and find ways to improve it.


The surveys have been improved and should take 5 minutes to take

Matching with Mentees

Making Matches





Before accepting a match, ask yourself:

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Do I have the capacity to take on another mentee?

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Do I feel like I would be a good match for this person?

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Does this person need more support than I can provide?

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Do I understand my mentees needs and goals?

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Would support groups or other programs be a better fit?

Accepting Requests



Please note:

It might take some time to get requests from mentees so please be patient

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  • Log into the app


  • Click the toggle on the upper left to ensure you are in the Power of Two program


  • Requests will pop up immediately


  • Click “View Request”


  • Then Click “Accept” or “Decline”

After Accepting a Request



Introduce yourself and

say hello!

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“Hi [mentee], it is so nice to meet you! ​Thank you for connecting with me and ​welcome to the Power of Two program. I ​am excited to meet you, and I wanted to ​share a little bit more about myself. I am ​[insert some fun facts about you, share ​about your IBD journey, etc.]. What is your ​preferred mode of communication?”

Declining Requests



It is ok to decline a request if you won’t be a good fit!

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“Hi [name]! Thank you for reaching out and ​requesting a connection. Unfortunately I am ​not taking on more connections at this ​time. I do not think we would be a good fit ​because [insert reason here]. Feel free to ​browse the other mentors and send more ​requests or reach out to ​powerof2@crohnscolitisfoundation.org”


Things to Keep in Mind

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We ask that you reply to requests as soon as possible, but preferably within 2 days.

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If another mentor accepts the mentee’s request before you do, it will disappear

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Mentoring requests auto close within

10 days

If You Aren’t Getting Requests

If it has been longer than 3 months and you haven’t received a request please let us know. Sometimes we have people reach out to us directly to be connected and we can help facilitate that connection

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The Mentoring Process

The Typical Process

It is different for EVERYONE, but here is what is typical:

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3 month ​long process

Partnership

Meet 1-2 ​times a ​month

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Working ​towards a ​goal

1. Getting Started

The first month of the mentoring relationship is about:

getting to know one another

clarifying expectations & boundaries

building rapport with one another

creating a structure for meetings

exploring issues identified by the mentee

acknowledging strengths of the mentee

Try to gather some basic information about ​them, and share some about yourself:


  • Who is in their family?
  • What do they do for work?
  • What are their hobbies and interests?
  • What is there educational background?

Remember to review their profile and ask them questions about what they’ve already shared

The First Meeting Check List

Welcome

Introduce yourself



Provide an ​overview of ​Power of Two



Discuss the ​mentees goals

Frequency of ​communication



Response time



Your availability to ​connect

Set ​Expectations

Boundaries & ​Privacy

Explain ​confidentiality



Inform them of ​when you need to ​break ​confidentiality



Share boundaries

Clarify Your ​Role

Outline the things ​you can and can ​not assist with



Discuss your ​expectations of ​them in the space

Share Your ​IBD Story

Share your story



Ask questions ​about their story



Ask about other ​support systems

Creating a Structure

Sample Mentoring Meeting Structure

Small Talk & Catch Up

Reflect on Progress

Discussion About Topic or Goal

Breaking it Down & Resource Sharing

Establishing ​Next Steps




try to give your ​mentee ​something ​actionable to do ​by the next ​meeting

It’s ok if your meetings do not look like this. We encourage you to use your ​own style of communicating, but this is a format to follow if you feel stuck!

Addressing Strengths

When living with IBD, you have to pull on many interpersonal strengths.

When you see your mentee utilizing one of their strengths, tell them!

Common Strengths You May Notice

resilience:

the ability to bounce back

self-awareness:

being aware of internal needs

adaptability:

learning to adjust as needed

empathy:

being understanding of others

problem-solving skills:

finding solutions to challenges

persistence:

not giving up on goals

resourcefulness:

being proactive and seeking out info to manage their health

courage:

demonstrating bravery in managing their health

2. Working Towards Goals

The second month of the mentoring relationship is about:

clarifying things the mentee is currently struggling with

understanding their IBD journey

establishing goals to work on

continue to acknowledge mentees strengths

work together on

actionable tasks

Clarify What the Mentee Is ​Struggling With

  • Review their profile and ask ​them about the topics they ​selected
  • Bring up things they have ​already shared, “I noticed ​you mentioned that you’ve ​been having a hard time at ​doctors appointments, is ​that something you’d like ​to work on?”
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If your mentee is ​well adjusted and ​not struggling with ​anything, that is ​ok!

Understand their IBD Journey

  • Ask questions about ​what they already ​listed in their profile
  • Remember that ​everyone’s journey ​with IBD is very ​different
  • Share pieces of your ​own journey to ​encourage them to ​open up about theirs

TIP:

Utilize Our IBD ​Topic Starters ​Listed In Their ​Profile!

Establish Goals to Work On

Help your mentee find one actionable thing to work on:

  • Goals can be specific
    • “Improve communication with my healthcare team by preparing ​questions before appointments, organizing my medical records, ​and speaking openly.”
  • Goals can be vague
    • “Get more comfortable talking about IBD”

3. Wrapping Up

The last month of the mentoring relationship is about:

acknowledging your mentees progress

connect them with other resources

addressing feelings and concerns about coming to an end

Acknowledge Progress

  • Reflect on the mentoring journey and any progress ​that your mentee has made
  • “I noticed you’ve been a lot more open around talking ​about your IBD since we first met”


If the progress was small or minimal, that is ok! ​Acknowledge, the fact that they have been trying


“I wanted to say that it has been so great getting to ​know you and I am proud of how hard you’ve been ​working to adjust to your new diagnosis of IBD”

Reflecting on Progess

Some questions to ask your mentee:

  • How do you feel about the progress you’ve made ​towards your goal since we started working ​together?
  • How has your approach to managing your health and ​IBD changed over the past weeks/months?
  • What have been the most challenging aspects of ​living with IBD recently, and how have you been ​coping with these challenges?
  • How has your understanding of IBD evolved and how ​has this knowledge impacted your daily routines?

A Good Close

express ​gratitude

thank them ​for the ​opportunity ​to learn more ​about them ​and mentor ​them

review ​progress

reflect on the ​things they ​achieved and ​the things ​they haven’t ​achieved yet

connect to ​other ​supports

help connect ​them to ​support ​groups or ​the help ​center if they ​need further ​support

move ​forward​

create a clear ​path for ​them moving ​forward with ​next steps

Continuing Education

Continuing Education

The Mentor ​Hub

All trainings ​and ​handbooks ​will be ​accessible ​here

My IBD ​Learning

Wide array ​of local and ​national ​webinars

The ​Foundation’s ​Website

Visit the ​website to ​learn more ​about IBD

and more!

Stay tuned ​for our ​mentor ​newsletter ​and other ​ways to stay ​in touch

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